Despite the fact that I know it really doesn't matter what I do or don't say, everyone thinks they know why I do what I do anyway (and it's always the worst possible motivation), this is the reason.
The lengths that some of you stoop to get me to take them down about you.
But what you don't get is that I never would've gone public - had you not attacked me.
When Carly published that first public post, she knew exactly what she was doing - drawing in Jlee and the Fight Club for reinforcement, when things went badly between us.
I don't have anything to prove to anyone here and I'm tired of being under the microscope.
I know who I am, I know what happened here, and despite how implausible it may sound - it really did happen exactly as I said.
No, Fight Club - I'm not going to go away and start over and blog under a different name, skulking away like some criminal - I didn't do these criminal things - YOU did and try to pin them on me, as well as Lee on his own starting this game.
But in the end, you win - you get any and all posts taken down about you, but can continue to say whatever YOU want, wherever you want, regarding me.
How proud you must be.:)
Madonna: "Human Nature": My Bible for Dealing with Cluster-B Personalities;)
Cluster B's: Making Other People's Lives Hell Online for Over 10 Years
"Maintaining Your Sanity While On The Net"
.............................................................................................................................................................................. Found almost exclusively (but in abundance)hiding out on the net, Cluster-B Personality Disorders are your basic, desperate-for-public-validation comment junkies, attention whores, and chronic victims, who absolutely insist on being the center of attention...UNLESS......................................................... of course, you're of the same sex, but perceived inferior in some way (not a threat to their popularity or male attention) or a member of the opposite sex. Then it's shower the adoring fan with attention time!.......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... They often refuse treatment, especially long-term ............. because that would risk confrontation on their behavior and exposure - which is their biggest fear - often to an irrational degree;)..........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Cluster B's cannot handle the slightest confrontation or criticism - even if you can prove that they first maimed and disfigured YOU, lol. You have mortally wounded them, which is infinitely more important. You have no rights, you have no voice, you are disallowed boundaries, and you are disallowed feelings - only they are allowed these things. ............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................The emotions of 'guilt' and 'remorse' prove too heavy a burden for them to carry; they can't regulate these emotions like healthier human beings without becoming suicidal; so they avoid feeling them at all. ..................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................In fact, anyone who confronts them on their behavior will be objectified as being "nonhuman" in their eyes. By objectifying that individual, they can justify any further treatment of that person as being warranted, and therefore avoid ever feeling any guilt or remorse.:)......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................They have difficulty distinguishing fantasy from reality, and as a result, most (if not all) of their social lives consist of "fantasy" relationships online, where they can easily manipulate their appearance and how they are perceived, as well as maintain complete control of their environment, whereas they can't in real life............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................. Online, they can be found grouping up with others with similar issues for reassurance, which is unfortunate; because though there may be strength in numbers, there certainly isn't good mental health. ............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................This positive reinforcement of each other's negative behavior, also known as "enabling," essentially means that they are keeping each other sick and away from self-awareness - simply to avoid being left alone. As the saying goes, misery loves company.........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Woe to the person who inadvertantly stumbles onto their pathology under blog - that person will be immediately perceived as a threat for exposure. .......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Typically, a cluster B's next move will be a pre-emptive strike at that person, usually in the form of an under-blog smear campaign. They often will project THEIR motivations and behavior onto that individual - the goal being, of course, to create gang-ups and cyberbullying until that person leaves the net and is silenced...all to avoid their own exposure. Pretty smart, huh? Too bad it's the mark of a sociopath. ......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................If ever in a situation where you're not sure who is the victim and who is the perpetrator because of the fighting? Check for that encouragement of gang-ups, as well as under-blog efforts to poison the well with the blogowners of where they post or their commenters- and there's your perp.
............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................Therefore, true Cluster B's will never get better, as they lack the ability to gain insight into their own behavior, constantly find other sick people to enable them, and cannot tolerate even the gentlest honest feedback about themselves - only "yes, men," enablers, and validation. .......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................For more, read the DSM-IV. ....................
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As mentioned above, they often travel in "packs," like a recreated online dysfunctional family. If attacked(above or below blog) - you may find yourself shooting back at them on an off day or out of frustration.
..................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... When this happens, realize that you are not dealing with a normal human being - they can't feel guilt or remorse, and they don't really care about how you feel at all, it's all about them - so just repeat after Madonna and me: ....."And I'm not sorry - it's human nature
............................................................................................................................................................................. I'm not your BITCH, don't hang your shit on me
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You wouldn't let me say the words I longed to say.
You didn't want to see life through my eyes.
[express yourself, dont repress yourself].........................................................................................................................................................................
You tried to shove me back inside your narrow room and silence me with bitterness and lies
.................................................................................................................................................................................. Did I say something wrong? Oops, I didn't know I couldn't talk about sex
[i musta been crazy]
Did I stay too long? .............................................................................................................................................................................. Oops, I didn't know I couldn't speak my mind
[what was I thinking] ...........................................................................................................................................................................
And I'm not sorry - it's human nature................................................................................................................................................................................ You punished me for telling you my fantasies
I'm breakin all the rules I didnt make
[express yourself, dont repress yourself].........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
You took my words and made a trap for silly fools- you held me down and tried to make me break ................................................................................................................................................................................. Did I say something true? .............................................................................................................................................................................
Oops, I didn't know I couldn't talk about sex
[i musta been crazy]................................................................................................................................................................................
Did I have a point of view?span style="color:#990000;">Oops, I didnt know I couldn't talk about YOU
............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................[Im not apologizing]........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... Would it sound better if I were a man? ..................................................................................[You're the one with the problem. Why dont you just deal with it?]........................................................................ Would you like me better if I was? .........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
[we all feel the same way]
I have no regrets. Just look in the mirror.
[i dont have to justify anything]
I'm just like you.
[why should I be? ]
Deal with it!.....................................................................................................................................................................
Absolutely...no...regrets:)
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